My husband divorced me unaware that I make $5 million a year. said: I’m marrying my mistress!”
The Cracks in the Candy Coating
I recently decided to file for divorce. I’ve chosen to keep the house and the car. I understand this is a tough time, and though my words may sound sympathetic, they carry a sharper edge than intended. The smile that accompanied these words inflicted deeper pain than I could have imagined.
How could he decide to leave at a time when I was battling illness? Didn’t we vow to face life’s challenges together? The shock of his cold demeanor and harsh words leaves me in tears.
I am unable to forgive him despite my physical frailty. I am resolved to make him feel the pain he has inflicted upon me. This resolve marks the beginning of a new chapter in my life, one of retribution.
My name is Natalie, and at 42 years old, I have devoted my life to being a loving housewife. I cared tirelessly for my family. Each day with my husband, Bruce, used to be filled with joy, reminiscent of the sweet, vibrant candies we once enjoyed together.
They were so delightful that time seemed to vanish when we first met through a mutual friend. Bruce’s outgoing nature and warm smile quickly put me at ease, making it easy to open up to him.
Our early days were filled with such happiness that I eagerly looked forward to every moment we could spend together, cherishing each one. It’s difficult to grasp now, but our love was once deep and true, filled with promises of a shared future.
Living with him felt like a dream; each day was radiant, and I believed our smiles would last forever. However, as time passed, Bruce began to change, likely strained by his demanding job.
His salary wasn’t substantial, as he hadn’t pursued advanced education or qualifications, which limited his career opportunities. Although I suggested he consider a new job several times, he always hesitated, claiming he was content with his current situation.
While I was working full-time, and we weren’t facing any financial issues, I still had concerns about what might happen if we decided to have a child or if I became ill and couldn’t work. To ease these worries, I thought it might help if Bruce found a stable job as well.
One day a friend from my company’s HR department mentioned there was an opening in administration. It didn’t require special qualifications, just a basic skill set, and it seemed like a perfect chance for Bruce to improve his job situation, which I knew he found challenging.
Excited, I suggested the position to him, thinking it could be a great opportunity. However, Bruce’s response was unexpectedly cold and defensive.
“Why are you making decisions about my job without asking me? I chose my current place myself. Are you saying there’s something wrong with it?”
His reaction caught me off guard. I had only suggested it out of concern for his future and well-being, not to undermine his choices.
“I’m sorry. I didn’t mean to upset you with my proposal,”
I apologized, trying to explain my intentions.
“I just thought the conditions at your current job seemed tough, and maybe this company would be a better fit for you,”
“But he didn’t see it that way. Just because you’re my wife doesn’t mean you can interfere in my career decisions,”
He retorted, almost as if he were talking to a stranger, not his partner. As he walked away, his words echoed in my mind, striking a deep chord.
I am his wife, and we are supposed to be a family, yet his words and demeanor felt like they were directed at someone else. This incident was just one of many that began to create a growing rift between us.
This strain extended to his interactions with my family as well. My mother, a genuinely kind soul, often visited our home while I was at work. She would clean and cook, leaving delightful meals in the refrigerator as her way of looking after us.
I deeply appreciated her efforts and frequently invited her over for dinner. However, lately Bruce had become visibly annoyed by her presence. On occasions when he’d come home and find her in the living room, his irritation was palpable, further widening the growing crack between us.
Bruce’s abrupt comment stunned both my mother and me.
“You’re here again,”
It made me question the state of our relationship and our future together. How were we supposed to bridge the growing gap between us?
With a gentle smile my mother responded:
“It’s all right, Natalie. If my presence makes you uncomfortable, I apologize. I’ll leave earlier today.”
Hearing her say that broke my heart, especially knowing how she always went out of her way to help us despite her busy schedule.
“Bruce, please think about how Mom feels,”
I implored, tears beginning to well up in my eyes, altering the mood in the room. I remembered all the times she had brightened our home and couldn’t fathom why Bruce would address her in such a manner.
Bruce tried to explain his feelings, saying:
“When I come home after working hard all day, all I want is to relax. It’s exhausting to have someone else around all the time in my own house.”
I tried to see things from Bruce’s perspective, but my appreciation for my mother’s efforts made it difficult. It seemed to me that Bruce was just being stubborn, and I struggled to find a way to communicate my feelings in a manner he could understand.
My mother seeing the tension reassured me:
“Don’t worry about it, Natalie. If everyone’s happy, that’s all that matters to me.”
Her comforting smile filled me with an overwhelming sense of guilt. That evening, as I savored the delicious meal she had prepared, my emotions were a mix of appreciation and remorse.
I couldn’t stop thinking about Bruce and how our relationship might be mended. Meanwhile, a new challenge emerged. One day at work, I suddenly felt dizzy and fainted.
Thankfully, my colleagues acted swiftly, calling an ambulance and rushing me to the nearby hospital, where a series of medical tests began. Everything felt like a blur as my health took a sudden turn for the worse.
I tried reaching out to Bruce, but he didn’t respond. Then came the heavy diagnosis: cancer. Thankfully, it was caught early, and the doctors assured me that with the right treatment I would recover.
However, I was well aware of the grueling nature of cancer treatments and braced myself for a challenging journey ahead. I informed Bruce about my diagnosis and subsequent hospitalization, but his reaction was dishearteningly indifferent.
His silence during this critical time made me feel incredibly isolated. Nonetheless, I resolved to focus on my treatment, believing that pushing forward was my only viable option.
The treatment was even tougher than I had anticipated. My health rapidly declined, confining me to my hospital bed most of the time. Amidst this struggle, Bruce finally appeared in my hospital room one day.
“How are you feeling?”
He asked nonchalantly.
“It’s pretty rough,”
I replied, trying to inject some light-heartedness into the conversation.
“It might have been a bit easier if you were by my side, honestly.”
I was frustrated by his lack of presence. Why hadn’t he come sooner? His support could have made a significant difference during these trying times. Instead of feeling relieved at our reunion, I felt even more isolated. Reflecting on our past only increased my irritation.

