What’s the scariest way someone has ever obsessed over you?
It’s like overnight everyone that once called me magnetic, that said, “I was the type of girl to make everyone feel at home,” had disappeared.
So that’s how I ended up being 55, living alone, unmarried, and without kids. And when one day I was rooting through the post and found an invitation to a wedding, an adrenaline rush filled my entire body.
But the signs were all there. Everyone I knew was already married. It was a 6-hour drive from my house. I didn’t even recognize the name on the card. And yet, I decided to attend.
And when the day came, I found myself driving down long roads in the middle of nowhere, surrounded by forests and almost no civilization.
I was only two miles away when the logical part of my brain finally kicked in and asked me what the f I was doing. And when I pulled over to take a good look at myself in the rearview mirror, I realized that I really was an idiot.
But instead of just cutting my losses, turning around and driving home, I kept going until I reached the venue.
It was a barn house with no farmland nearby and no decorations outside, not even so much as a balloon. As I walked in, the door creaked open and I could barely even push it from how heavy it was.
Luckily, there was a wedding inside. It was just a little musty. Think of a country lover’s wedding Pinterest board and then mix that with a budget of $3,000. Then you’re somewhat close to what this one looked like.
When I went inside, the wedding was starting and I scoured the audience’s faces for anyone I recognized. When no one looked even vaguely familiar, I realized that an invitation may have been sent to the wrong address. I felt a heat crawl up my spine and I was instantly filled with embarrassment.
How could I have believed that someone really wanted to be friends with me again? As soon as the wedding ended, I made a beline towards the door.
But that’s when the bride pulled my arm and stopped me.
“Sherry, wait.”
I froze. No one had called me Sherry since my divorce. And when I turned around, it all made sense because as I took a closer look at the bride, I noticed something. It was my best friend from high school.
Our eyes locked and she smiled, her face filling with the same warmth as all those years ago, except there was something else I noticed.
It looked like pity or fear. I cringed, thinking about how she probably saw me as a loser now.
Suddenly, she lunged forward and grabbed my hand before telling her husband we’d be back in a few minutes. As soon as we were alone, she grabbed my shoulders and started shaking me back and forth.
“What the actual f are you doing here?” she asked, her voice filled with genuine shock.
“Um, you invited me?”
“I thought you were dead.”
At this point, her face was ghost white. I swear I thought she was pranking me, but that’s when she burst into tears.
“What is going on?” she repeated over and over again.
That’s when she pointed to a corner of the room. Inside a fusty picture frame was my obituary, taped inside. I blinked my eyes and rubbed them together. And that’s when I woke up.
Except the whole thing wasn’t some horrible nightmare. And I didn’t wake up in a comfy bed with some candles.
Number I woke up to the only reality I knew back then, a white bed in a white room tied down by leather cuffs and head foggy with forced medication. You see, that wedding was my last memory before ending up in the institution because the wedding really was my best friend, Selena, from high school.
But she hated me. Her dad passed in a fire when she was nine, and she started smoking the devil’s lettuce at just 15 to cope. I always tried to stop her, but she never listened.
And at 19, she was diagnosed with schizophrenia. And it was around this time that boys started really taking a liking to me. So much so that when I’d reject them, they’d lash out.
And one of them took things too far. Instead of trying to attack me or even my family, they went for Selena. He convinced her not to take her medication, which she already hated doing.
And during a psychotic break told her I was the one to set her dad’s house on fire. When she started believing it, that was when I went no contact because she was doing everything she could to hurt me back.
But then one day, decades later, she invited me to her wedding. Little did I know she had built up a case of diluted false evidence that apparently proved I had done it.
So after she pulled me into the room and tried to confuse me with the “I thought you were dead” skit, the entire time she was waiting for the police to arrive. They pronounced me guilty and sent me to an insane asylum, which is how I ended up there, lying across a cold and unforgiving table.
That memory haunted me for years. I spent four years institutionalized. The first two are a blur. I was heavily medicated, written off as a delusional, aging woman with no support system.
The nurses barely looked at me. The doctors just scribbled notes and adjusted my dosages. I lost track of days, weeks, months.
Selena visited quarterly, pretending to be the only one who still cared. She’d sit across from me in the visitors room. Her face a perfect mask of concern. I could barely focus on her through the medication fog.
She brought cookies sometimes. Chocolate chip. I hated chocolate chip. She knew that. But the staff thought she was so thoughtful.
“Poor Sherry,” she’d tell them, dabbing at fake tears. “I’m all she has left in this world.”
And they believed her. Why wouldn’t they? She was put together, articulate, emotional in all the right ways.
I was just another middle-aged woman who’d lost her grip on reality. The perfect victim. No one to miss me. No one to question my sudden disappearance from the world. By the third year, I’d given up hope.
My room became my entire universe. White walls, white sheets, white ceiling with a crack that looked like a river delta.
I counted the tiles on the floor. 16 across, 22 down, 352 total. I counted them every day just to make sure I was still alive.
Then Dr. Lawrence arrived. He wasn’t like the others. No small talk, no patronizing smiles, just questions. Real questions.
He reviewed my file like he was solving a puzzle, not just checking boxes. During our first session, he barely looked up from his notepad.
“Miss Callaway, your commitment papers are unusual,” he said.
I remember how his glasses slid down his nose as he flipped through the pages. “There’s no family interview, no prior history, just a single statement and a rushed court order.”
I tried to explain, but my words came out jumbled. The medication made everything foggy. He nodded, made a note, and left.
I thought that was it, just another doctor passing through. A week later, my medication changed.
“Reassessment,” the nurse said.
I didn’t believe her, but slowly, painfully, my head started to clear.
The withdrawal was brutal. Headaches that felt like ice picks behind my eyes. Tremors that made me spill my food.
Nights where I couldn’t tell if I was awake or dreaming, but I could think again. Really think.
Dr. Lawrence came back with more questions. This time, I could answer them. I told him everything about Selena, about the fire, about the wedding. He didn’t smile or nod or tell me I was confused.
He just listened.
“I need proof.”
I told him one day, “I need to contact someone from before.” He hesitated, then handed me a pen and paper.
“Write down names. Anyone who might remember you. Anyone who knew both of you.”
I wrote down Maria’s name first. She was Selena’s college roommate. We weren’t close, but she’d always been kind to me.
Dr. Lawrence promised nothing. But a week later, he slipped me a letter during our session. Maria had written back. Her handwriting was neat, precise.
“I always thought something was off with Selena’s story.” She wrote, “She was obsessed with you. Talked about you constantly. How you ruined her life, how you were going to pay someday.”
“I never believed you set that fire.”
I cried for the first time in years. Not because I was sad, but because someone believed me. Someone remembered me. I wasn’t crazy. I wasn’t dead. I was just buried alive.
Dr. Lawrence started building a case. Procedural failures, lack of due process, conflicts in Selena’s testimony. It took another year of paperwork and hearings and evaluations.
The system moves slowly when it’s admitting a mistake. Finally, on a Tuesday morning, they released me. No fanfare, no apology, just a plastic bag with the clothes I’d worn to the wedding and a bus ticket to a halfway house three towns over.
The nurse at the front desk couldn’t even look me in the eye as she handed me the discharge papers.
“Good luck,” she mumbled.
Four years of my life and all I got was good luck. I stepped outside for the first time in 1,460 days. The sun was too bright, the air smelled like gasoline and fast food.
I had no phone, no money, no ID, just the name of a halfway house and a bus that would take me there. As I waited at the bus stop, I realized something. Selena thought I was still locked up. She had no idea I was free.

