My sister tried assaulting her best friend at her wedding.

The Wedding Disaster and Growing Suspicion

My sister tried to cut off contact with her best friend for literally no reason after a disaster wedding. A disgusting truth was revealed which exposed my sister as a manipulator and liar.

About a year ago, my sister Anne named me the maid of honor. I found this strange because ever since she was little, she swore to her best friend Ruby that she’d be her maid of honor.

Everyone asked Anne about this throughout the wedding planning, but she said nothing. When the big day came, Ruby was there but at the back wearing an eccentric dress.

Her fashion sense has always been crazy, and therefore her dress gathered no attention. Despite this, it made Anne believe she was being outshone.

She planned to spill champagne on Ruby’s dress and started walking to her holding a glass, but thankfully I caught her. When I tried to talk her out of it, she started screaming.

The entire audience turned to us. I simply told Anne that either she stopped screaming right now and stops embarrassing herself, or I will leave the wedding venue right now.

I saw her go red. She stopped yelling and excused herself to the bathroom.

The rest of the wedding was rather awkward. You could definitely feel the sour taste in the air.

I probably should have, but I did not talk to Ruby. Ever since the wedding happened, Anne started cursing Ruby out and saying that their friendship is over.

She has not blamed me at all in any way, which I find surprising. Instead, she has shifted every ounce of blame onto her former best friend for, in my opinion, absolutely no reason.

One day, after another one of Anne’s “F Ruby” tirades, I snapped. I said that she’s been friends with Ruby most of her life and she knows what she dresses like.

I told her she should have expected this. If it was that much of a problem, she should have found a way to mention it to her or just made her a bridesmaid.

She could have told her or communicated in any way. Anne lost it with me.

She sent Ruby some really horrible messages after she screamed at me. She also told me some nasty and horrible things.

She didn’t say a word to me all of yesterday. However, she’s badmouthing me to our dad, who was on her side.

My mom has told Anne that she should apologize to Ruby for the nasty messages she sent and for yelling at me. Consequently, Anne isn’t talking to her either.

I don’t even know what’s going on. Ruby swears on her life that they didn’t have an argument or anything before the engagement.

Anne says that that’s none of my business and I should be supporting my real sister. My dad agrees with her, and she’s rallied the other bridesmaids against me.

I do not know what to do. Update one: I decided I wanted to let my sister Anne know how much she meant to me and I was going to tell her that this morning.

However, she looked like someone peed in her cereal again, so I did not. Anne’s husband Dave asked me if I could talk to Anne.

They’ve also apparently had a massive fight because he tried to defend Ruby on the wedding night. He asked me if I could explain where he misstepped and how to make up to her.

This is the first time he’s ever asked me for help with their relationship, so he’s clearly at a loss. I said I was just as confused.

We didn’t even know why Ruby wasn’t at the bridal party, so he should just try and talk it out with Anne. This is when it gets weird.

Dave said that the reason Ruby wasn’t in either wedding party was because he wanted her as a best woman and Anne wanted her as a maid of honor. Anne wouldn’t budge.

She said that they should just drop her from both parties. To be fair, he said that she explained it to Ruby and that’s why they had a fight because Ruby wanted to be included.

I said okay and just hung up, but the more I think about it, the more confused I am. If they had a massive fight about Ruby being Maid of Honor, surely Ruby would remember.

Also, I don’t know why Dave would want Ruby as his best woman. To my understanding, he only met her after he started dating Anne.

Update two: I’m even more confused. Dave called me up about 30 minutes ago asking me in a very angry tone of voice if any of his groomsmen behaved inappropriately towards me.

I could hear Anne in the background shouting something. I said that they had been perfect gentlemen at the wedding and that I hadn’t had any contact with them since.

He then asked me if Ruby knew that she was meant to be best woman. I said not to my understanding.

I noted it was possible that I don’t know, as both she and Anne had been quite secretive about what happened between them. I suggested he’d be better off asking her himself.

He laughed and hung up. Ruby has texted me asking me what’s happening and if I knew about the best woman and Maid of Honor thing.

Just now I got a message from one of the bridesmaids saying that if Dave calls me, I shouldn’t answer him. Anne is currently on the phone to my dad screaming at him.

I have no clue what’s going on. I think somewhere in this mess is the truth of what actually happened.