At dinner, husband said: “My parents are coming, Don’t make this dirty dinner for him, then get out”
The Stalker and the Financial Strain
Shortly after this conversation, Laura called me, bubbling with excitement.
“Listen, Betty, my boyfriend’s coming back to Canada next year,” she shared.
Laura and her boyfriend had been dating since high school. Having known each other since they were kids, he had moved away during middle school.
They maintained their bond through letters and eventually reconnected in high school, where he expressed his feelings for her. I’ve always enjoyed Laura’s romantic tales.
Despite her boyfriend working at an international branch for a few years, they managed to keep their relationship strong and connected.
“Well, do you think he might propose once he’s back?” she pondered excitedly.
“And then you guys will get married!” I exclaimed, half teasing.
Laura laughed and responded, “Oh, Betty, you’re always jumping to conclusions”. “Just make sure to invite me to the wedding”. “I promise I’ll give another heartfelt speech”.
“Of course, after the beautiful speech you gave at my wedding, I need you to do the same at yours”. “Just don’t set the bar too high,” we chuckled together.
We sipped our tea, enjoying the ease and trust that flowed through our conversation. We had always been there for each other, ready to listen whenever one of us faced any issue.
Around this time, I started noticing changes in Jonathan’s routine. He began returning home increasingly late.
“Working late again today?” I asked one evening.
“Yeah, you think I shouldn’t work or something?” he retorted.
Even after our marriage, Jonathan clung to his dream of becoming a voiceover artist. He was dedicated, juggling part-time jobs to fund his voice artist classes.
Unfortunately, all his earnings from these jobs were funneled straight into his training. This situation left me to cover all our living expenses.
It became difficult for us to save any money together. As time passed, it became clear that Jonathan was not willing to compromise on his aspirations for the sake of our financial stability.
My concern grew as he put in excessive hours at his part-time job. This only added to our financial strain.
“Hey, haven’t you been working too much lately?” I mentioned one day. “They shouldn’t be making you do so much overtime even if it’s just a part-time job”.
“I told you I’m fine,” he snapped back. “More money is always better”. “Just keep your opinions to yourself”.
By then, Jonathan had become distant. He was no longer even using my name when we spoke. Since our marriage, Jonathan had begun to address me merely as “you”.
I had expected him to speak to me with kindness and more frequently. However, his words were often harsh. His once gentle voice had grown rough.
His drinking had increased significantly. At times his voice even sounded hoarse. This was concerning given that voice artists demanded a healthy voice.
Despite this, he seemed disinterested in discussing his health. He increasingly avoided conversations with me. Eventually, he started ignoring me altogether, even when we were in the same room.
Amidst these challenging times, Laura called me. She mentioned she had something important to discuss, so I suggested we meet up. Given my concerns, I was eager for a conversation.
We decided to meet at a cafe, a type of private seating area. Laura chose our booth, a spot from where the counter and staff could easily be seen from the door.
“You chose this room specifically?” I asked, noticing her cautious approach.
“Yes,” she replied. “I wanted a spot where the staff could see if there was a suspicious person outside our door”.
“A suspicious person? Is that related to what you wanted to discuss?” I queried, connecting the dots.
Laura nodded, her expression tense. She explained that she had felt like someone was following her ever since she left her job about a month ago. Now she even felt watched on her days off.
The reason she picked a room with a clear view was that she suspected the person stalking her might try to eavesdrop on our conversation.
“Did you talk to the police about it?” I asked, concerned.
“I tried, but since there’s no direct contact, they can’t do much,” she sighed.
“What about your boyfriend? Isn’t he coming back in a month?” I inquired, hoping she had support.
“I thought I’d discuss it with him too, but I wanted to first talk to you, someone close by,” she explained. I understood her need for immediate support.
Laura hadn’t managed to get a clear view of her stalker, making the situation even more unnerving. Laura was too frightened to discern whether her stalker was a man or a woman.
I decided to discreetly watch from a distance to try and identify who was following her. During this time, I was struggling with my troubled relationship with Jonathan.
I found it hard to open up about it. As I kept an eye on the situation, I made a shocking discovery. The person shadowing Laura was none other than my husband, Jonathan.
Jonathan often claimed he had to work late. I noticed that after his shifts, he lingered near Laura’s workplace and followed her as she left.
I was stunned to realize that the person causing my best friend such fear was my husband. Witnessing Jonathan tracking Laura with a creepy, unsettling grin completely changed my perception of the man I had married.
The man I had fallen in love with now seemed like a stranger. The love I thought would last forever turned cold. I knew I had to tell Laura the truth.
I urged her to move immediately for her safety. With the help of her colleagues, she arranged for someone to drive her from the underground parking lot directly to her new residence. We took these precautions to ensure her safety.
