I Earned $2.5 Million, but my Husband laughed and said, “I’m divorcing you because you’re too poor.”
The Million-Dollar Revelation
As we walked out, relieved, I exchanged some last words with Albert. “I’m glad we don’t have to deal with dividing property,” I commented, trying to keep the conversation light.
“What are you saying? I’m the one who benefits from that,” Albert retorted, his tone dismissive. “By the way, do you even have assets?”
“After paying me reparation, Judy will also claim damages.” “She mentioned charging you for the wedding expenses,” he continued.
“That’s impossible! I’m marrying Judy. We’re divorced now, so there should be no problem,” he insisted, clearly still entangled in his narrative.
“Still living in a fantasy, Albert?” I asked, incredulous at his denial. “You committed marriage fraud. You had a wedding while still legally married to me.”
“Do you think Judy still believes your story?” I inquired.
“Marriage fraud? That’s ridiculous. Judy will believe me,” he insisted, though doubt seemed to creep into his voice.
“Believe that if you want, but I heard from Judy directly.” “Also, weren’t the guests at your wedding paid actors? You still owe them, you know,” I added, revealing more of his deception.
“You know about that? I haven’t paid them yet,” he snapped, frustrated. “What does it matter to you? You could have just taken property division and been better off.”
“That’s what I wanted to tell you,” I explained calmly, ready to correct his misunderstanding. “Even if we had divided property, you would have benefited more.”.
“What are you talking about, poor woman?” Albert scoffed, continuing to underestimate me. “Your family is poor, and you only make $210,000 a year, right?”
“Even if you got a raise, it would be barely $225,000.” “You don’t have any property,” he concluded.
“You keep calling me poor, so I thought you might be mistaken,” I corrected him, revealing the true extent of my financial success.
“Yes, my salary was indeed $130,000.” “But you know I work for a foreign company, right?”
“It seems you have no real interest in me, but I became a director of the US division.” “It’s not $130,000 per year, but per month,” I clarified.
“$210,000 per month, making my annual income $2.52 million,” I corrected him.
“You’re still bad with numbers,” Albert mumbled. “$200,000 a year? That can’t be true.”
“Of course, I haven’t had the chance to spend such an amount, so I’ve been saving it for the future.” “The savings from before our marriage aren’t part of the property division, but there’s still a considerable amount since our marriage.”
“I could have received half of that in the property division,” I pointed out, dismantling his assumptions. “You were my husband, after all.”
“I’ll get the divorce papers corrected,” he asked, his voice a mix of disbelief and resignation. “Are you okay?”
“After all the contempt, do you think I’d gladly undo the divorce if you had that much money?” he continued. “You don’t need to claim reparation, right?”
After finalizing the divorce and dealing with the fallout, Albert looked bewildered and a little desperate. “It’s just a small amount for you,” he tried to downplay the reparation for the mental anguish he had caused me.
“He who laughs at 1 cent will weep for 1 cent,” I responded firmly. “This reparation is for the emotional distress you caused me.”
“Honestly, I would like to claim more.” “And since it’s official now, make sure you pay it, even if it’s in installments,” I demanded.
“I’ll be left with nothing.” “And don’t think about going back to that apartment,” I warned.
“Your belongings have already been moved to your parents’ house by now.” “You thought I had few belongings, but that was because I had already moved most of them,” I continued.
“Were you really that indifferent to notice?” I asked, pointing out his oversight.
“I can have so little? So now I have to go back to my parents’ house?” he asked. “They don’t know anything yet, do they? Let me explain.”
“Don’t say anything. I’ve already told them everything,” I said, cutting him off. “It’s only right to explain why we’re divorcing.”
“Oh, and your father said don’t ever step over our threshold again,” I concluded.
Overwhelmed, he slumped down, and I left the cafe. Later, I heard he caused a scene at the police station.
Ignoring my advice, he returned to the apartment, sitting aimlessly in the space until the manager called the police, and he was taken away. It wasn’t clear if it was for obstructing public duties, trespassing, or for the falsified divorce papers.
Eventually, his parents took responsibility for him. After speaking with me and learning about Judy, they decided that apologizing and paying damages to Judy’s family was the priority.
They went to Judy’s house, knelt in front of her family, and settled everything without pressing charges for marriage fraud, even covering the wedding expenses. I had expected them to sue, so it was disappointing when they didn’t.
Therefore, I decided to pursue legal action against him for forging the divorce papers. Albert offered a settlement, but I didn’t withdraw the lawsuit.
I didn’t want him to think that everything could be resolved with money. I wanted him to be convicted and truly understand the gravity of his actions, even if it cost time and money.
I handed everything over to my lawyer so it wasn’t too burdensome for me. Despite it taking time, Albert was exposed for his actions and the marriage fraud.
His company couldn’t keep him on after he was detained by the police and subsequently absent without leave. He was eventually fired.
He ended up living at his parents’ home, working all day at a relative’s construction company. His father took all his earnings, leaving him without any income.
Albert’s parents turned out to be more stringent than I anticipated. They compensated me for the emotional damage and paid Judy for her losses.
They were determined to have Albert work exhaustively until he had repaid everything. He ended up living in a basic, shed-like structure without electricity, subsisting on just $1.06 a day for food.
This amount was deducted directly from his meager earnings. They even planned to ask him to leave once he settled his debts.
This was a tough turn of events after his years of apparent ease. In the meantime, after the divorce was finalized, I was offered a position at our company’s head overseas.
Accepting the offer, I moved abroad, a decision that eased my worries about Albert possibly seeking help from me or harboring resentment. Abroad, I assumed work would dominate my life for a while.
However, life took a pleasant turn. I soon entered into a new relationship.
I am now dating a foreign executive at our head office. Things progressed well, and I’m currently pregnant with plans to get married soon.
I have been open with him about my past and my tumultuous relationship with my ex-husband. He has been nothing but supportive and understanding.
We’ve discussed our plans. I’ll take maternity leave and later return to work with him taking paternity leave and committing to co-parenting.
This cultural perspective on sharing parenting responsibilities was refreshing and showed me a different way of life. Having endured so much turmoil with my ex-husband, I finally feel like I am on the path to true happiness and confidence, building the happy family I always dreamed of.
My experience has taught me that while divorce is not always the desired outcome, enduring silence is never a virtue. It’s crucial to realize that honest discussions can lead to meaningful resolutions, and sometimes divorce is a necessary step toward a better life.
