What’s the most hurtful thing your family has ever done to you?
Ultimate Revenge and Consequences
A few days later, I was back in the basement with the guys. They were all laughing, patting me on the back, telling me how good of a job I’d done. But I couldn’t stop thinking about that house.
And that’s when the idea hit me. If I could do it to them, if I could destroy their home and their memories, why couldn’t I do the same to my parents?
But this time I wouldn’t just burn things. I’d take what mattered most to them: their precious heirlooms. They valued these more than anything.
I could see it clearly in my mind: the look on my mom’s face when she realized that the menorah, the Torah, and all of those priceless relics of her family’s history were gone. It would crush her.
My dad would know it was me. He’d know that his son had taken everything they held dear, and I would be satisfied, more than satisfied.
One evening I waited until I knew they’d be out. It was a Friday night Shabbat; it was perfect. I went inside and tore the place apart.
I smashed the family pictures and ripped up the furniture. I wanted them to come home to chaos.
The best part had to be destroying their religious stuff. The menorah, the Torah scroll they kept in the study. It felt like every religious thing that they’d forced on me couldn’t bother me anymore.
I shattered it all. I remember standing over the broken pieces of the menorah, the one that had been in my mom’s family for generations, and feeling nothing but satisfaction. They deserved this.
When they came home, I wasn’t there to see their faces. But I knew my mom definitely cried. My dad probably cursed me again, but I didn’t care. I’d made my point.
Later that same night, I went back to the house, this time with a can of gasoline. I knew they were inside, asleep. I used the exact same tactics that Cal taught me: light it and leave without a trace.
I poured the gasoline around the back of the house, lit a match, and watched as the flames started to spread.
At first, it was exhilarating. I felt powerful, like I was finally in control. But as the fire grew, panic set in.
I didn’t mean for it to get so out of hand. The flames were bigger than I’d imagined, and the smoke was choking me.
I ran, heart pounding, as the fire consumed everything. By the time I got far enough away, I could hear the sirens. My parents must have woken up; must have called 911.
I watched from a distance as the firefighters tried to save what was left of the house. Most of it was gone.
The next morning, I woke up to the police at my buddy Alfred’s house looking for me. They told me I was under arrest, and I went with them without much struggle.
My parents pressed charges. My mom had given up on me. My dad didn’t say anything or try to talk to me. I was put on trial for arson.
They told the court how I’d been acting out, how I’d vandalized their house and destroyed their things. I didn’t deny any of it. I’d done all those things.
But as I sat there in the courtroom, listening to my parents talk about me like I was some kind of monster, something inside me snapped. I wasn’t the villain here; they were.
They were the ones who kicked me out, who refused to let me live my life the way I wanted. They were the ones who pushed me to this point.
But none of that mattered in court. The judge didn’t care about my reasons. He just saw what I’d done, and he sentenced me to 5 years in prison.
It’s been a few months since I was let out of prison, and I’ve had a lot of time to think. I thought I was fighting for my freedom, for my right to be who I wanted to be, but now I wasn’t so sure anymore.
I haven’t heard much from Alfred or Cal after my sentencing and began to wonder if I made a mistake. I didn’t know if my parents would ever forgive me. I didn’t know if I even wanted them to.
But as I sit here day after day, replaying everything that happened, I realized that maybe I was wrong.
